Not only are these women unattractive to me, but if I think to the future, this means heart attack, diabetes, hip and knee replacements and couch potato, none of which seem interesting. Is this someone I’m going to travel with as I age, or be able accompany me up a mountain or even on a slow bike ride? When my doctor told me to lose weight 15 years ago, I lost 40 pounds in 3 months and kept it off, so it can be done. It is my experience that physical intimacy enhances other aspects of the relationship, meaning emotional stability and satisfaction, trust, bonding, etc. My advice is to continue to clarify what you want early on when you notice that a relationship is getting serious.

I have lost count after 2 decades. I have never wanted to be single in my life. I always wanted to have a woman in my life. I lost out on the most important time of life, to be in a relationship with a woman. Even as a teenager, I was constantly rejected by girls.

It was a total fluke I met her at all. I was in a bar having a beer with a buddy and he left to go hit on the bartender at another place at 3pm in the afternoon. This hot girl came and sat down alone when I was finishing my beer and ready to leave. I helped her with the umbrella to get the sun out of her eyes and we spent most of the past month together 24/7. I was on vacation and she wasnt working. But yes we are build over the period of time, there are few things which keeps me deprived..although i am learning to take responsibility of my actions..

More propaganda from the brain dead. Your divorced because you made a bad choice. You ignored good men for the “bad boy”.Or someone you could “fix”.

Don’t ignore it

When you truly connect with someone, nothing should stand in the way of nurturing that — all the rules that once defined dating are out the window. Women have a huge advantage in their younger years because they have beauty on their side. Men have a big advantage when they are older because they have more financial stability. Most men make their own way in life and dont want to depend on a women for financial support.

I am in my mid 40s and have been in an unhappy marriage for many years. I must be one of those rare men because I find women in their 50s mentally stimulating therefore attractive. Once I can end my marriage I most likely will not date a woman younger than in her late 40s. Older women, for the most part, have life experience and know what they want.

If He Has Children, Love Them

There are to many narcissists men looking for a “mommy,” to take care of them! Only good thing were 2 beautiful grown children doing very well for themselves. I’ve given up on the search and resigned myself to figuring out how to live out the rest of my lfe in a meaningful way. I figure if God wants me in a relationship he will plant a man in front of me.

Middle-aged men will have better odds standing by the cukes in their grocery store’s produce section. It happened again…… I stuck my neck out for a guy who needed a friend. He is going through a tough time and I wanted him to know he wasn’t alone and he will get through it. As he got to know me he became very serious and said I am the one he has waited for all his life. He wanted to be a man I would want and respect. I hadn’t started communicating with him for a romantic relationship but I could tell he is a caring guy.

With kids out of the nest, an older man may have more time for you.

So you are 65, and that dude is 75 with less miles and poorer health prospects. We know people in that boat 65 year old lady, who cannot travel with her less than healthy hubby. At least there are women over 50 who are honest in the descriptions and make it very clear that they are no longer interested in sex. Im 54 and I am on a couple of dating sites. I post just my profile picture, username, age and city and that is it! I get 25 to 30 messages a day from different woman and an average of 45 – 50 that have viewed my profile.

If you put your positive self out there you will attract something good. We ‘re both into a very healthy lifestyle. We hike a couple days a week and usually go dancing on the weekends…2 hours of non stop loud Rock or Salsa . That’s why I intend to stick to dating men around my own age of 50. I am hoping for the same level of maturity, a little more understanding and acceptance because of life experience, and some similar interests.

Started dating after a 25 yr marriage. Not sure what I want beyond companionship and sex, but I am totally open to the possibilities. I feel this is a good post and it can serve as advice to many people out there going through rough situations. I picked some good facts from this post even though my situation is way opposite but there is something similar which is rediscovering ones self.